Ethically Unethical
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“You are still talking to her?” Akash’s dad shouted. His voice fully expressed the anger he felt. Akash just glanced towards him. No words, but the look said it all. They never got along well, but Akash’s relationship with Tapasya had only aggravated it.
It was a daily thing, Akash’s dad returning back after a stressful day and occasionally seeing his only son on the line with a girl, his dad referred to her as ‘That Woman’, or sometimes ‘That B***h’. His dad didn’t mind his son having an affair, but this was different, Tapasya was a Divorcee and had kids. “So what?” Akash would argue. She is a divorcee is not a fault of hers, and moreover she is of your daughter’s age!! His whole family dis-approved, and that included his sister, who was till recently his close friend more than a sister.
“Is falling in love with a divorcee wrong? Is it so wrong to part ways with a person who abuses you and sleeps around with different girls wrong? Is it always ‘The Woman’ who is wrong? Once married, is it necessary for a wife to bear everything no matter what the husband does? Is her life over? Doesn’t she have the right to live her own life on her terms?”
“It’s against the society. I would lose my respect among our people.” Akash’s dad fumed. “Are you living for the society of yours or your family? Where were your so called people when you needed them?”
The argument never ends. The dinner is never served. The night begins with a dead silence and whispered sobs.
Akash prays for forgiveness, for he had raised his voice with his parents. His parents pray, for their son to get some sense.
How much does Ethics matter in todays society?? To be honest, the society never does develops, or rather, the pace is painfully slow. Is falling in love ethical?? Is it wrong to stand by someone you love? or is it more right to follow the path your parents choose for you? coz they brought you up??
8 comments:
Love is never wrong
Love is never unethical.
Nothing can stop it. We can just turn a blind eye.
beautiful, as always.. Keep writing. :)
I am here on recommendation by Chhaya and I believe that if a link has to be suggested by her the content has to be good.
You have raised the right questions here. More importantly, I found this question/statement quite poignant: "Are you living for the society of yours or your family? Where were your so called people when you needed them?" We have lived enough for the society. It is time now that we redeemed ourselves and lived a life that allows to come face-to-face with our own self.
The story isn't important here as much as the issues are. Wonderful way to bring it to light with a bit of drama.
Chhaya,
well...i will surely cont. i guess thats what u wanted me to do?? right...
n haan...
thanks....
:D
VP,
well good to read ur comments...infact i always read ur comments on chhayas' posts...
thanks buddy...
(dont mind me calling u VP)
I wish I had answers to any of these questions... all are very relevant, words which spiral inside my mind all the time before drowning into silence of a coward heart .... we make society and we can break them .... keep walking!!!
Anorak,
hey buddy, well thanx for ur comments...true we make the society...but, breaking them would destroy the very sense in creating them....
but, theres always a choice...ethical or unethical... ;)
Hey
I started reading this blog just now...
I don't feel this is unethical in any sense. It is more like a matter of disagreement. I feel that when parents began to see their children as their representatives in the society and demand the "perfect picture", its time to take a stand.
But obviously, all this is easier said than done, isn't it?
@Ivre
this particualr post is not even half satisfying to me...if i could, i would have done it all over again... :)
n yes, the choices are rather difficult to make...
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